May have to break NC but conflicted on what to do..

2022.01.27 21:16 SadGirlNatalie May have to break NC but conflicted on what to do..

Me (21)F Is moving in a few weeks. Literally dropping everything and moving a few states away. I already have a job lined up but now in the process of trying to downsize. With that being said I have some of my Ex boyfriend (23M) things. We’ve been over a month NC because I basically pleaded for him back only for him to say he wanted to explore his options and to not wait on him. The main thing that was so hurtful was “‘Maybe in a year we can try again” I’ve had some pretty awful dates afterwords too. We’ve been BU for almost 4 months now.
After we had that 3 hour conversation in person he texted me he needed space. Quite frankly I don’t want to go back to his house or reach out but I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to reach out unless he does but I don’t want to be rude either. Should I just stop by without saying anything, leave his stuff at the front door and go or should I text him let him know I’m moving and that I’m dropping off the rest of his stuff? The problem is I have to drop off his stuff because it’s some paperwork we had together when we had a buisness together so it would be wrong for me not too. I don’t want to keep his stuff in storage here either.
I could barely sleep yesterday. The night before I had a dream he called me. I’m so ready to move. We didn’t really end on bad terms tho it was a hard breakup because we were together for 2 1/2 years. It was because I wanted to move out of the country and he was preparing me to breakup with him because he was falling out of love. Part of the main reason was my family drama, my immaturity and his rudeness along with us taking each other for granted.
My mom ended up getting a brain injury and is now in a walker. I wanted to text him so badly about it but I pushed through. I wish one day we could rekindle things but I can’t wait like this. She’s doing better but my family drama has gotten way to much to handle.
Struggling what to do. Thanks for the advice.
Just to add he did return my stuff so as much as y’all want me to burn it, I should have the same respect as he gave me. Our in person conversation didn’t go bad either just his responses were saddening and gave me a false sense of hope that I’m still trying to recover from.
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